I don’t know what people usually mean when they say that nerds have poor social skills. But I say that nerd communities function worse than regular communities. It’s not just that nerds don’t know how to flirt with regular people, but nerds have great difficulty flirting with nerds.
Also nerds would prefer to hang out with normal people. This means that any normal person willing to hang out with nerds instantly gains high status within a nerd community. Also, nerds are perfectly willing to exile the more social inept nerds from their communities for the chance to have a normal person join. Tragically this tends to create a slippery slope that ends with nerds being exiled from their own communities.
I don’t know what people usually mean when they say that nerds have poor social skills. But I say that nerd communities function worse than regular communities. It’s not just that nerds don’t know how to flirt with regular people, but nerds have great difficulty flirting with nerds.
Also nerds would prefer to hang out with normal people. This means that any normal person willing to hang out with nerds instantly gains high status within a nerd community. Also, nerds are perfectly willing to exile the more social inept nerds from their communities for the chance to have a normal person join. Tragically this tends to create a slippery slope that ends with nerds being exiled from their own communities.
What? I prefer spending time with people who pretty much care about what I care about, and that’s mostly nerds.
Why do you think nerds would rather hang out with normal people?
Would they?