I can think of five easily who spontaneously said something like this to me and who I recall specific names and details about. And like 20 more who I’m inclined to project it onto but there was some guesswork involved on my part (e.g., they told me about trouble having hobbies and about feeling kinda haunted by whether it’s okay to be “wasting” their time, and it seemed to me these factors were connected, but they didn’t connect them aloud for me; or I said I thought there was a pattern like this and they nodded and discussed experiences of theirs but in a way that left some construal to me and might’ve been primed. Also I did not name the 20, might be wrong in my notion of how many).
In terms of the five: two “yes better shot IMO,” three not. For the 20, maybe 1/4th “better short IMO”.
I can think of five easily who spontaneously said something like this to me and who I recall specific names and details about. And like 20 more who I’m inclined to project it onto but there was some guesswork involved on my part (e.g., they told me about trouble having hobbies and about feeling kinda haunted by whether it’s okay to be “wasting” their time, and it seemed to me these factors were connected, but they didn’t connect them aloud for me; or I said I thought there was a pattern like this and they nodded and discussed experiences of theirs but in a way that left some construal to me and might’ve been primed. Also I did not name the 20, might be wrong in my notion of how many).
In terms of the five: two “yes better shot IMO,” three not. For the 20, maybe 1/4th “better short IMO”.