You know, this really calls for a cartoon-y cliche “light bulb turning on” appearing over byrnema’s head.
It’s interesting the little connections that are so hard to make but seem simple in retrospect. I give it a day or so before you start having trouble remembering what it was like to not see that idea, and a week or so until it seems like the most obvious, natural concept in the world (which you’ll be unable to explain clearly to anyone who doesn’t get it, of course).
(which you’ll be unable to explain clearly to anyone who doesn’t get it, of course)
Seriously. Apparently, I wrote the key insight she needed (not knowing that it was the missing insight), but she didn’t click on it the first time, and then, as I am asking questions to try to narrow down what the confusion is, something I said, as a side effect, prompted her to read that insight again and she got it. Now, how can one systematically replicate a win like that?
You know, this really calls for a cartoon-y cliche “light bulb turning on” appearing over byrnema’s head.
It’s interesting the little connections that are so hard to make but seem simple in retrospect. I give it a day or so before you start having trouble remembering what it was like to not see that idea, and a week or so until it seems like the most obvious, natural concept in the world (which you’ll be unable to explain clearly to anyone who doesn’t get it, of course).
Seriously. Apparently, I wrote the key insight she needed (not knowing that it was the missing insight), but she didn’t click on it the first time, and then, as I am asking questions to try to narrow down what the confusion is, something I said, as a side effect, prompted her to read that insight again and she got it. Now, how can one systematically replicate a win like that?
Be polite and patient when people are confused?
Well, that is important. But that is more part of not automatically failing, than actually making progress towards dispelling the confusion.
Lacking understanding, that’s the best advice I can give.