I’m a little surprised there isn’t a subculture of people trying to excel at sex.
I’m sure there is, but I don’t think it would want to be very… public about it. For one thing, I wouldn’t be surprised if competent professionals were very good (and very expensive).
Given Christianity’s prudishness (thank you, St.Augustine), you may also want to search outside of the Western world—Asia, including India, sound promising.
But as usual, one of the first questions is what do you want to optimize for. And don’t forget that men and women start from quite different positions.
I’m sure there is, but I don’t think it would want to be very… public about it. For one thing, I wouldn’t be surprised if competent professionals were very good (and very expensive).
Given Christianity’s prudishness (thank you, St.Augustine), you may also want to search outside of the Western world—Asia, including India, sound promising.
But as usual, one of the first questions is what do you want to optimize for. And don’t forget that men and women start from quite different positions.
I don’t know what you mean by this.
The physiology of men and women is significantly different.