Yet conscious cynicism is much rarer than you might suppose. Few of us have the self-knowledge and emotional discipline to say one thing while meaning another.
Ekman’s studies on lying nurses found about half of them leaked nothing when lying about the emotional content of films they were watching. (“Oh, these are pretty flowers, not a gruesome surgery on a burn victim.”) I don’t think ‘few’ is the way I’d put it.
I hadn’t known someone had decided to study that specifically...
Based on my experience of nursing school, I would say this ability not to leak emotional reactions is true of nurses in particular, because you do get used to seeing a lot of really gross or upsetting stuff and reacting matter-of-factly. I basically don’t experience disgust anymore. (Specification: in certain situations where most people would be disgusted, I experience pretty much no emotions, i.e. cleaning up diarrhea or changing bandages on infected wounds. There are some situations where I wouldn’t previously have been grossed out and I am now, i.e. by the idea of doing CPR without a pocket mask.) Even in the case of empathy in others’ pain, I’ve had to learn to control my emotional reactions so that I can, you know, get my work done and not be totally useless.
This is the study. A few more details (I don’t have access to the full study):
One of the reasons they decided to study it was because it was a case where they were fairly confident that the liars actually wanted to lie well and be believed. The subjects were nursing students, and were all told that their ability to keep their calm and not present disgust is necessary for nurses. They watched a pleasant film about flowers, and narrated their reaction to it while being videotaped, and then watched an unpleasant film about surgery on a burn victim, attempting to react the same way as they did to the flower film.
The thing you’re describing sounds different, though- whereas Ekman thought he had found people who hid their disgust well, perhaps he found people that didn’t actually feel disgust in the disgusting situation. The full study may have more details.
Yet conscious cynicism is much rarer than you might suppose. Few of us have the self-knowledge and emotional discipline to say one thing while meaning another.
That is a belief that I recommend people consciously choose to endorse in most social contexts. I wouldn’t say it is true though, unless spoken by a three year old with respect to his peers.
“Naturally the common people don’t want war: Neither in Russia, nor in England, nor for that matter in Germany. That is understood. But, after all, it is the leaders of the country who determine the policy and it is always a simple matter to drag the people along, whether it is a democracy, or a fascist dictatorship, or a parliament, or a communist dictatorship. Voice or no voice, the people can always be brought to the bidding of the leaders. That is easy. All you have to do is tell them they are being attacked, and denounce the peacemakers for lack of patriotism and exposing the country to danger. It works the same in any country.”
---Goering, quoted here.
The link has some added snark in square brackets, but I’m not up for figuring out how to defeat markdown to include it, and anyway the snark isn’t part of the original quote.
I have no idea how you’d evaluate the average level of self-delusion.
(And for reference, if something seems to be getting confused with markdown you can almost always fix it by throwing a “\” before the offensive character.
David Frum
Yeah, right.
Keyword: “conscious cynicism”.
Markus’s cynicism trumps your conscious!
/bows
His kung fu is best.
Ekman’s studies on lying nurses found about half of them leaked nothing when lying about the emotional content of films they were watching. (“Oh, these are pretty flowers, not a gruesome surgery on a burn victim.”) I don’t think ‘few’ is the way I’d put it.
I hadn’t known someone had decided to study that specifically...
Based on my experience of nursing school, I would say this ability not to leak emotional reactions is true of nurses in particular, because you do get used to seeing a lot of really gross or upsetting stuff and reacting matter-of-factly. I basically don’t experience disgust anymore. (Specification: in certain situations where most people would be disgusted, I experience pretty much no emotions, i.e. cleaning up diarrhea or changing bandages on infected wounds. There are some situations where I wouldn’t previously have been grossed out and I am now, i.e. by the idea of doing CPR without a pocket mask.) Even in the case of empathy in others’ pain, I’ve had to learn to control my emotional reactions so that I can, you know, get my work done and not be totally useless.
This is the study. A few more details (I don’t have access to the full study):
One of the reasons they decided to study it was because it was a case where they were fairly confident that the liars actually wanted to lie well and be believed. The subjects were nursing students, and were all told that their ability to keep their calm and not present disgust is necessary for nurses. They watched a pleasant film about flowers, and narrated their reaction to it while being videotaped, and then watched an unpleasant film about surgery on a burn victim, attempting to react the same way as they did to the flower film.
The thing you’re describing sounds different, though- whereas Ekman thought he had found people who hid their disgust well, perhaps he found people that didn’t actually feel disgust in the disgusting situation. The full study may have more details.
That is a belief that I recommend people consciously choose to endorse in most social contexts. I wouldn’t say it is true though, unless spoken by a three year old with respect to his peers.
An example for your side:
The link has some added snark in square brackets, but I’m not up for figuring out how to defeat markdown to include it, and anyway the snark isn’t part of the original quote.
I have no idea how you’d evaluate the average level of self-delusion.
Love it.
(And for reference, if something seems to be getting confused with markdown you can almost always fix it by throwing a “\” before the offensive character.