[,,,]we don’t just talk about arguments in terms of war. We can actually win or lose arguments. We see the person we are arguing with as an opponent. We attack his positions and we defend our own. We gain and lose ground. We plan and use strategies. If we find a position indefensible, we can abandon it and take a new line of attack. Many of the things we do in arguing are partially structured by the concept of war. Though there is no physical battle, there is a verbal battle, and the structure of an argument—attack, defense, counter-attack, etc.---reflects this. It is in this sense that the ARGUMENT IS WAR metaphor is one that we live by in this culture; its structures the actions we perform in arguing. Try to imagine a culture where arguments are not viewed in terms of war, where no one wins or loses, where there is no sense of attacking or defending, gaining or losing ground. Imagine a culture where an argument is viewed as a dance, the participants are seen as performers, and the goal is to perform in a balanced and aesthetically pleasing way. In such a culture, people would view arguments differently, experience them differently, carry them out differently, and talk about them differently.
-George Lakoff and Mark Johnson, Metaphors We Live By.
War is something we do to win. Dance is something we do either to entertain others, or for our own enjoyment. Debate teams work like this—you’re assigned a position which you must argue, even if you don’t believe it. The performers/debaters do it some for their own pleasure, and they attract audiences who come to be entertained. My husband and I do a lot of arguing/debate for amusement, which is more like social dance in that it’s playful and designed to entertain us rather than to accomplish any other goal.
But neither of these metaphors deal with objective truth. If I win a war, a debate, or a lawsuit, it doesn’t prove my point is correct. It just means I fought or argued more skillfully or impressively. In navigation, both skill and objective truth are involved. Imagine two people who are trying to reach a destination (representing truth). They need skill to figure out how to get there, and can even compete for who gets there first (as in the sport of orienteering). Or, they can collaborate to find it together. If I confidently and stylishly navigate in the wrong direction, I won’t reach my destination. I can only get there by reading the signs correctly.
I would prefer serious argument to be more about truth-seeking and less about showing off or defeating the opponent.
I have been preferring dancers over warriors.. but navigators does ring a bell… But orienteers.. kind of too abstract for me… while we are talking of navigation how about scouts??
“Too abstract”? What exactly are you thinking of? Orienteering is one of the most concrete and immediate forms of navigation. (I did a little in high school, in the brushy woodlands common in the Mid-Atlantic region it is a real challenge.)
ADDED: How about changing the [CLOSE] button to something like DISCARD. I keep clicking on it when I want to commit an edit and losing my work.
Oops really late reply. Anyway, i meant that the similarities are not apparent at first read. In fact i was extrapolating from the Orient sense of the word.. Now i see it better, was not aware of orienteering as a sport. Thanks
-George Lakoff and Mark Johnson, Metaphors We Live By.
I think navigators (maybe orienteers?) would be a better model than than warriors or dancers.
Would you (or anyone else) please explore this further? How would we change the way we talk about discourse?
War is something we do to win. Dance is something we do either to entertain others, or for our own enjoyment. Debate teams work like this—you’re assigned a position which you must argue, even if you don’t believe it. The performers/debaters do it some for their own pleasure, and they attract audiences who come to be entertained. My husband and I do a lot of arguing/debate for amusement, which is more like social dance in that it’s playful and designed to entertain us rather than to accomplish any other goal.
But neither of these metaphors deal with objective truth. If I win a war, a debate, or a lawsuit, it doesn’t prove my point is correct. It just means I fought or argued more skillfully or impressively. In navigation, both skill and objective truth are involved. Imagine two people who are trying to reach a destination (representing truth). They need skill to figure out how to get there, and can even compete for who gets there first (as in the sport of orienteering). Or, they can collaborate to find it together. If I confidently and stylishly navigate in the wrong direction, I won’t reach my destination. I can only get there by reading the signs correctly.
I would prefer serious argument to be more about truth-seeking and less about showing off or defeating the opponent.
I have been preferring dancers over warriors.. but navigators does ring a bell… But orienteers.. kind of too abstract for me… while we are talking of navigation how about scouts??
“Too abstract”? What exactly are you thinking of? Orienteering is one of the most concrete and immediate forms of navigation. (I did a little in high school, in the brushy woodlands common in the Mid-Atlantic region it is a real challenge.)
ADDED: How about changing the [CLOSE] button to something like DISCARD. I keep clicking on it when I want to commit an edit and losing my work.
Oops really late reply. Anyway, i meant that the similarities are not apparent at first read. In fact i was extrapolating from the Orient sense of the word.. Now i see it better, was not aware of orienteering as a sport. Thanks