It might help to find a friend you can practice with, for the names—if the issue applies to IM/Skype/etc. as well, then you can probably find a practice partner or two right here. Otherwise, hopefully you have an in-person friend who you’d trust to explain this to, and who can encourage you to refer to them by name frequently :)
For answering machines, the same friend can probably help, or you could practice on your own answering machine.
I’ve found that, for most skills, doing really impractical-but-safe practice exercises like this actually really pays off. Even if it doesn’t 100% resolve the issue, it still gives you a good foundation to build on, and helps remind you that the activity CAN be safe.
It might help to find a friend you can practice with, for the names—if the issue applies to IM/Skype/etc. as well, then you can probably find a practice partner or two right here. Otherwise, hopefully you have an in-person friend who you’d trust to explain this to, and who can encourage you to refer to them by name frequently :)
For answering machines, the same friend can probably help, or you could practice on your own answering machine.
I’ve found that, for most skills, doing really impractical-but-safe practice exercises like this actually really pays off. Even if it doesn’t 100% resolve the issue, it still gives you a good foundation to build on, and helps remind you that the activity CAN be safe.