You can’t get a $30 haircut if you’re a woman. It’s $40-$60, minimum. Let’s not even get started on styling.
I used to get my hair cut at barbershops because of the price; lately I don’t live near a barber who’ll make an exception for me, unfortunately. (No, I don’t have a man’s haircut. Some barbers will just cut a woman’s hair if you ask nicely.)
Honestly, I would be surprised if being more “serious” about hair (blow-drying, styling product, straightening) made much of a difference in my appearance and people’s impression of me. Am I underestimating the importance of hair?
It depends on where you live and what sort of cut you want. My haircuts are ridiculously cheap, because I have long, straight hair and I just want a straight line across the bottom, so they generally charge me the child’s price ($10). Fair warning, though, I may get charged less out of sheer novelty, because my hair comes to my knees, or because I always wash my hair at home before going, rather than having them wash it for me there, because my hair is simply too long to be washed in a sink.
I have lots of hair advice, but it is largely limited to very long hair, and thus minimally useful, and not worth using space on. If anyone wants advice on having or growing long hair, I’ll be happy to respond.
It takes a long time. I’ve been growing mine for fourteen years, and it was at least seven before it was long enough to be at all remarkable. Growth rates vary, and mine isn’t all that fast (4-5 inches a year), but it may be a long time. Don’t get fed up and chop it all off.
Stop doing damaging things. No more blow-drying or coloring or straightening or curling. Minimize the amount of product you put in. Never tease your hair.
Get trims. A half inch trim every three months or so will take off the split ends and make your hair healthier.
Conditioner is your friend. Use it liberally. As your hair gets longer, less of it will have any exposure to scalp oils. Be sure to condition all of your hair, not just the ends. I always brush my hair with the conditioner in it before I rinse. This makes sure the conditioner is evenly distributed and there are no tangles.
Braid your hair before sleep to prevent tangles, and brush gently. Work knots out patiently, don’t just tear through them.
Don’t wash your hair every day. Every other day is plenty for hygiene purposes, and more often is hard on your hair.
Once your hair is too long to brush in a single stroke, pull it back in a bunch like a ponytail, and then pull it over your shoulder. Brush from the bottom up.
*Bear in mind that not all people can grow their hair really long. Every hair follicle has a cycle, which is why your eyebrows don’t grow down to your chin. The length a hair from a particular follicle can reach is the duration of the cycle times the rate of growth. These factors vary from person to person, and can also vary within a person’s lifetime. If your hair gets to a certain length and the ends get really straggly even though you’re taking good care of it, it may have reached its limit.
These principles should work for varied hair types, and should allow you to get your hair long. Hopefully, by the time it’s really long, you’ll be used to it and won’t do anything stupid, like the time I did a backbend, adjusted my feet, and then tried to stand up without realizing I was standing on my hair.
Do you have to ask for the child’s price or do they just give it to you? My hair doesn’t come as far as my knees, but I do have to stand up to get it cut and usually don’t want it washed there. (I even brush it myself.)
They just gave it to me after I’d been there once or twice, but I suspect that if you pointed out that you just want a straight line and asked nicely, they might give it to you. If that is what you want, and have a friend or relative you trust to cut a straight line, it is also one of the few hairstyles that can be trusted to a nonprofessional. Just make sure you get a pair of good sewing scissors first.
If you live in a larger city, see if you have an Aveda Institute or Academy. Having your hair cut by a student means it’s $25 as opposed to $60 (Canada, cut only, no color), and they’ll redo it if the student does something terrible, though this has never happened to me. Also all natural products, which I really like.
As for hair maintenance, scrub your scalp with shampoo. Unless your hair is past your shoulders, you shouldn’t need more than about the size of a quarter in your palm. Focus the scrubbing on your scalp and not your hair, as the scalp is where oil comes from and the hair itself will be cleaned as the shampoo rinses from your scalp (this applies for hair dirty from daily living, not if you’ve lost a mud-fight or similar).
Apply a similar amount of conditioner to the hair, avoiding the scalp more. If you tend to be very oily, use less. If you have lots of frizz, use more. Let sit for at least thirty seconds, rinse, preferably in cooler water.
I get a haircut (trim for dead ends) from my mother about once a year. The haircuts I have paid for in the past were NEVER as much as $40. Then again, as a student maybe I can get away with the scruffier look.
You can’t get a $30 haircut if you’re a woman. It’s $40-$60, minimum. Let’s not even get started on styling.
I used to get my hair cut at barbershops because of the price; lately I don’t live near a barber who’ll make an exception for me, unfortunately. (No, I don’t have a man’s haircut. Some barbers will just cut a woman’s hair if you ask nicely.)
Honestly, I would be surprised if being more “serious” about hair (blow-drying, styling product, straightening) made much of a difference in my appearance and people’s impression of me. Am I underestimating the importance of hair?
It depends on where you live and what sort of cut you want. My haircuts are ridiculously cheap, because I have long, straight hair and I just want a straight line across the bottom, so they generally charge me the child’s price ($10). Fair warning, though, I may get charged less out of sheer novelty, because my hair comes to my knees, or because I always wash my hair at home before going, rather than having them wash it for me there, because my hair is simply too long to be washed in a sink.
I have lots of hair advice, but it is largely limited to very long hair, and thus minimally useful, and not worth using space on. If anyone wants advice on having or growing long hair, I’ll be happy to respond.
I’ve been interested in growing long hair, and would love to hear advice :)
Principles for growing long hair:
It takes a long time. I’ve been growing mine for fourteen years, and it was at least seven before it was long enough to be at all remarkable. Growth rates vary, and mine isn’t all that fast (4-5 inches a year), but it may be a long time. Don’t get fed up and chop it all off.
Stop doing damaging things. No more blow-drying or coloring or straightening or curling. Minimize the amount of product you put in. Never tease your hair.
Get trims. A half inch trim every three months or so will take off the split ends and make your hair healthier.
Conditioner is your friend. Use it liberally. As your hair gets longer, less of it will have any exposure to scalp oils. Be sure to condition all of your hair, not just the ends. I always brush my hair with the conditioner in it before I rinse. This makes sure the conditioner is evenly distributed and there are no tangles.
Braid your hair before sleep to prevent tangles, and brush gently. Work knots out patiently, don’t just tear through them.
Don’t wash your hair every day. Every other day is plenty for hygiene purposes, and more often is hard on your hair.
Once your hair is too long to brush in a single stroke, pull it back in a bunch like a ponytail, and then pull it over your shoulder. Brush from the bottom up. *Bear in mind that not all people can grow their hair really long. Every hair follicle has a cycle, which is why your eyebrows don’t grow down to your chin. The length a hair from a particular follicle can reach is the duration of the cycle times the rate of growth. These factors vary from person to person, and can also vary within a person’s lifetime. If your hair gets to a certain length and the ends get really straggly even though you’re taking good care of it, it may have reached its limit.
These principles should work for varied hair types, and should allow you to get your hair long. Hopefully, by the time it’s really long, you’ll be used to it and won’t do anything stupid, like the time I did a backbend, adjusted my feet, and then tried to stand up without realizing I was standing on my hair.
Do you have to ask for the child’s price or do they just give it to you? My hair doesn’t come as far as my knees, but I do have to stand up to get it cut and usually don’t want it washed there. (I even brush it myself.)
They just gave it to me after I’d been there once or twice, but I suspect that if you pointed out that you just want a straight line and asked nicely, they might give it to you. If that is what you want, and have a friend or relative you trust to cut a straight line, it is also one of the few hairstyles that can be trusted to a nonprofessional. Just make sure you get a pair of good sewing scissors first.
If you live in a larger city, see if you have an Aveda Institute or Academy. Having your hair cut by a student means it’s $25 as opposed to $60 (Canada, cut only, no color), and they’ll redo it if the student does something terrible, though this has never happened to me. Also all natural products, which I really like.
As for hair maintenance, scrub your scalp with shampoo. Unless your hair is past your shoulders, you shouldn’t need more than about the size of a quarter in your palm. Focus the scrubbing on your scalp and not your hair, as the scalp is where oil comes from and the hair itself will be cleaned as the shampoo rinses from your scalp (this applies for hair dirty from daily living, not if you’ve lost a mud-fight or similar).
Apply a similar amount of conditioner to the hair, avoiding the scalp more. If you tend to be very oily, use less. If you have lots of frizz, use more. Let sit for at least thirty seconds, rinse, preferably in cooler water.
I get a haircut (trim for dead ends) from my mother about once a year. The haircuts I have paid for in the past were NEVER as much as $40. Then again, as a student maybe I can get away with the scruffier look.