When you put it this way it sort of sounds like poly nerd communities are/could be a coping strategy for the ‘losers’ of female hypergamous mainstream dating. Like, if we’re worried about negative externalities from male losers in an increasingly non-monogamous (i.e. deregulated) sexual marketplace then a poly community where men outnumber women and women correspondingly have more partners than men seems like a decent idea.
When you put it this way it sort of sounds like poly nerd communities are/could be a coping strategy for the ‘losers’ of female hypergamous mainstream dating. Like, if we’re worried about negative externalities from male losers in an increasingly non-monogamous (i.e. deregulated) sexual marketplace then a poly community where men outnumber women and women correspondingly have more partners than men seems like a decent idea.
You’ve flipped something the wrong way.
Thanks. Fixed.