Find a person or people you both respect with relevant expertise. Do a formal debate where you both present your case. Choose a timed debate format so things can’t take forever. At the end, agree to abide by the judgement of the debate audience (majority vote if necessary).
Figure out whose vision for LessWrong is least like Facebook and implement that vision. The person whose vision is more similar to Facebook can just stay on Facebook.
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Find a person or people you both respect with relevant expertise. Do a formal debate where you both present your case. Choose a timed debate format so things can’t take forever. At the end, agree to abide by the judgement of the debate audience (majority vote if necessary).
Figure out whose vision for LessWrong is least like Facebook and implement that vision. The person whose vision is more similar to Facebook can just stay on Facebook.