Agreed. (I agree it varies, and I too am not sure where the median is.) But I take it that if ChristianKI is arguing #2 rather than #1 then he sees “homosexual identity” as a bigger thing than “heterosexual identity” in some sense, and my wording was intended to invite him to consider someone for whom that isn’t so. I can’t nail down the details because I don’t know in exactly what sense Christian (conditional on his intending #2 not #1) does consider homosexual identity a bigger thing than heterosexual identity.
Agreed. (I agree it varies, and I too am not sure where the median is.) But I take it that if ChristianKI is arguing #2 rather than #1 then he sees “homosexual identity” as a bigger thing than “heterosexual identity” in some sense, and my wording was intended to invite him to consider someone for whom that isn’t so. I can’t nail down the details because I don’t know in exactly what sense Christian (conditional on his intending #2 not #1) does consider homosexual identity a bigger thing than heterosexual identity.