Not my downvotes, but you’re probably getting flak for just asserting stuff and then demanding evidence for the opposing side. A more mellow approach like “huh that’s funny I’ve always heard the opposite” would be better received.
Indeed, I probably expressed myself quite badly, because I don’t think what I meant to say is that outrageous: I heard the opposite, and anecdotally, it seems right—so I would have liked to see the (non-anecdotal) evidence against it. Perhaps I phrased it a bit harshly because what I was responding to was also just an unsubstantiated assertion (or, alternatively, a non-sequitur in that it dropped the “native-like” before fluency).
Not my downvotes, but you’re probably getting flak for just asserting stuff and then demanding evidence for the opposing side. A more mellow approach like “huh that’s funny I’ve always heard the opposite” would be better received.
Indeed, I probably expressed myself quite badly, because I don’t think what I meant to say is that outrageous: I heard the opposite, and anecdotally, it seems right—so I would have liked to see the (non-anecdotal) evidence against it. Perhaps I phrased it a bit harshly because what I was responding to was also just an unsubstantiated assertion (or, alternatively, a non-sequitur in that it dropped the “native-like” before fluency).
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