Regardless of whether or not advancedatheist has been abusing the voting system, I’d like him to stop posting about involuntary celibacy (incel) entirely on LW. Though I sympathize with his plight—people don’t ever deserve to be in a state of mental strife, or experience anything that feels like suffering—his posts on incel mostly don’t attract quality replies, and probably scare people off. Moreover, he hasn’t stopped posting about this despite having been consistently downvoted.
Are there any appropriate forums where he might be able to post about incel to a more receptive audience? Don’t neoreactionaries tend to be sympathetic to incel folks?
I used to belong to a couple of incel fora many years ago, and from my experience I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone. Male incel communities are very hard to keep sane. They function as training camps for misogynists and PUA predators, and the few women who post advice there don’t help as much as they believe they do. I was ridiculed every time I tried to calm down the hatred and resentment. I wouldn’t wish to inflict that level of stress on anyone, much less anyone desperate enough to seek for such a place.
(Full disclosure: I’m bisexual, 32 years old, still a virgin with women, and opposed to both the premises and the methods of PUA.)
Regardless of whether or not advancedatheist has been abusing the voting system, I’d like him to stop posting about involuntary celibacy (incel) entirely on LW. Though I sympathize with his plight—people don’t ever deserve to be in a state of mental strife, or experience anything that feels like suffering—his posts on incel mostly don’t attract quality replies, and probably scare people off. Moreover, he hasn’t stopped posting about this despite having been consistently downvoted.
Are there any appropriate forums where he might be able to post about incel to a more receptive audience? Don’t neoreactionaries tend to be sympathetic to incel folks?
I used to belong to a couple of incel fora many years ago, and from my experience I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone. Male incel communities are very hard to keep sane. They function as training camps for misogynists and PUA predators, and the few women who post advice there don’t help as much as they believe they do. I was ridiculed every time I tried to calm down the hatred and resentment. I wouldn’t wish to inflict that level of stress on anyone, much less anyone desperate enough to seek for such a place.
(Full disclosure: I’m bisexual, 32 years old, still a virgin with women, and opposed to both the premises and the methods of PUA.)
Well, they appear less unhealthy then the society of writers and “writers” you belong to in RL.