Oh, that’s interesting. I guess I do think about stuff like that but I don’t … usually frame it as a status question. I just think about it in terms of what the people I’m around have a problem with. Like if they seem annoyed that I’m tying my shoes all the time, I try not to do it? Or whether I like the people enough to do stuff for them, for example.
Actually, you made me think of a really good example of this and it goes back to the earlier question of whether we should ask people things. I have a bad habit of walking off and not responding during IM conversations! I mostly do it because IM is that sort of casual medium where you can be doing a bunch of other things at the same time. I think most people I talk to don’t really care but when people tell me that they’re bothered by it, I make an effort to let them know if I’m not gonna respond for a while. But I guess some people might be interpreting it as a status move and therefore not letting me know it bothers them? So maybe the people that I figure are also not responding because they’re busy are actually deliberately not responding to also signal status? Oops.
Oh, that’s interesting. I guess I do think about stuff like that but I don’t … usually frame it as a status question. I just think about it in terms of what the people I’m around have a problem with. Like if they seem annoyed that I’m tying my shoes all the time, I try not to do it? Or whether I like the people enough to do stuff for them, for example.
Actually, you made me think of a really good example of this and it goes back to the earlier question of whether we should ask people things. I have a bad habit of walking off and not responding during IM conversations! I mostly do it because IM is that sort of casual medium where you can be doing a bunch of other things at the same time. I think most people I talk to don’t really care but when people tell me that they’re bothered by it, I make an effort to let them know if I’m not gonna respond for a while. But I guess some people might be interpreting it as a status move and therefore not letting me know it bothers them? So maybe the people that I figure are also not responding because they’re busy are actually deliberately not responding to also signal status? Oops.