FYI, this was a significant update for me. I just wanted to note that this is a bigger part of my model now as opposed to an edge case tacked on.
I hadn’t actually been invited much to google docs where this dynamic would come up, but it makes sense that this experience would be common. (I’ve only actually talked to one other person who shared your experience, so still up for updating backwards again, but I don’t expect to)
Which should either cause me to downgrade the importance of the “feeling safer in a private space”, or have it apply a bit differently than I was expecting it to have applied. (I think it still applies to the author of the original paper, maybe less so to commenters. Although I do think think having a sense that your fellow commenters are being filtered for some kind of “on-the-same-page-ness” still improves the conversation in other ways)
FYI, this was a significant update for me. I just wanted to note that this is a bigger part of my model now as opposed to an edge case tacked on.
I hadn’t actually been invited much to google docs where this dynamic would come up, but it makes sense that this experience would be common. (I’ve only actually talked to one other person who shared your experience, so still up for updating backwards again, but I don’t expect to)
Which should either cause me to downgrade the importance of the “feeling safer in a private space”, or have it apply a bit differently than I was expecting it to have applied. (I think it still applies to the author of the original paper, maybe less so to commenters. Although I do think think having a sense that your fellow commenters are being filtered for some kind of “on-the-same-page-ness” still improves the conversation in other ways)
FYI I’ve had this experience as well, though it’s not particularly strong or common.