I think that the distress would itself inhibit me in my friend-making attempts. It is a skill that I have to apply, not a chemical reaction where if you put me in a room with a friendly stranger and stir, poof, friendship.
Um… would I deeply offend you if I suggested that, perhaps, your worst fears and nightmares are not 100% reflective of what would actually happen in reality? I mean, what you’re saying here is that if you wake up without friends, you’ll be so shocked and traumatized that you’ll never make any friends again ever, despite any future friend-finding or friend-making-prediction software that could potentially be brought to bear. You’re saying that your problem here is unsolvable in the long run by powers up to and including Friendly superintelligence and it just doesn’t seem like THAT LEVEL of difficulty. Or you’re saying that the short-run problem is so terrible, so agonizing, that no amount of future life and happiness can compensate for it, and once again it just doesn’t seem THAT BAD. And I’ve already talked about how pitting verbal thought against this sort of raw fear really is one of those places where rationality excels at actually improving our lives.
Are you sure this is your true rejection or is there something even worse waiting in the wings?
I’m making projections based on psychological facts about myself. Anticipating being friendless and alone makes me unhappy all by itself; but I do have some data on how I get when it actually happens. I don’t think I would be able to bring to bear these clever solutions if that happened (to the appropriate greater magnitude).
I do consider this a problem, so I am actively trying to arrange to have someone I’d find suitable signed up (in either direction would work for). This is probably a matter of time, since my top comment here did yield responses. I’d bet you money, if you like, that (barring financial disaster on my part) I’ll be signed up within the next two years.
I asked this elsewhere, but I’ll ask again: what if the unhappiness and distress caused by the lack of friends could suddenly just disappear? If you could voluntarily suppress it, or stop suppressing it? There will almost certainly be technology in a post-revival future to let you do that, and you could wake up with that ability already set up.
I think that the distress would itself inhibit me in my friend-making attempts. It is a skill that I have to apply, not a chemical reaction where if you put me in a room with a friendly stranger and stir, poof, friendship.
Um… would I deeply offend you if I suggested that, perhaps, your worst fears and nightmares are not 100% reflective of what would actually happen in reality? I mean, what you’re saying here is that if you wake up without friends, you’ll be so shocked and traumatized that you’ll never make any friends again ever, despite any future friend-finding or friend-making-prediction software that could potentially be brought to bear. You’re saying that your problem here is unsolvable in the long run by powers up to and including Friendly superintelligence and it just doesn’t seem like THAT LEVEL of difficulty. Or you’re saying that the short-run problem is so terrible, so agonizing, that no amount of future life and happiness can compensate for it, and once again it just doesn’t seem THAT BAD. And I’ve already talked about how pitting verbal thought against this sort of raw fear really is one of those places where rationality excels at actually improving our lives.
Are you sure this is your true rejection or is there something even worse waiting in the wings?
I’m making projections based on psychological facts about myself. Anticipating being friendless and alone makes me unhappy all by itself; but I do have some data on how I get when it actually happens. I don’t think I would be able to bring to bear these clever solutions if that happened (to the appropriate greater magnitude).
I do consider this a problem, so I am actively trying to arrange to have someone I’d find suitable signed up (in either direction would work for). This is probably a matter of time, since my top comment here did yield responses. I’d bet you money, if you like, that (barring financial disaster on my part) I’ll be signed up within the next two years.
I asked this elsewhere, but I’ll ask again: what if the unhappiness and distress caused by the lack of friends could suddenly just disappear? If you could voluntarily suppress it, or stop suppressing it? There will almost certainly be technology in a post-revival future to let you do that, and you could wake up with that ability already set up.
This is an interesting point to consider, and I’m one who’s offered a lot of reasons to not sign up for cryonics.
For the record, a lower bound on my “true rejection” is “I’d sign up if it was free”.