My story about what happened is more that I was saying things that were very triggering to my friend and that I wasn’t modeling that in sufficient detail; she even said something like “I’m happy that you’re trying to think through this and come to your own conclusions, but you just can’t do it around me.” So I stopped.
I had something similar happen to me (with a different but equally inflammatory topic).
I didn’t say anything I don’t believe, but I think I could have said it in a more diplimatic way.
Is that the case with you too?
My story about what happened is more that I was saying things that were very triggering to my friend and that I wasn’t modeling that in sufficient detail; she even said something like “I’m happy that you’re trying to think through this and come to your own conclusions, but you just can’t do it around me.” So I stopped.