Oaths in general can be a form of precommitment and a weak signal that someone ascribes to certain moral or legal values, though no one seemed to take it seriously in this instance. On my first day, it was just another piece of paper in with all the other forms they wanted me to sign, and they took it away right after a perfunctory reading. I had to search it out online to remember just what it was I had sworn to do. Later, I learned some people didn’t even remember they had taken it.
Personally, I consider it very important to know the rules, laws, commitments, etc., for which I may be responsible, so when I or someone else breaks them, I can clearly note it.
For example, in middle school, one of my teachers didn’t like me whispering to the person sitting next to me in class. When she asked what I was doing, I told her that I was explaining the lesson, since she did a poor job of it. She asked me if I would like to be suspended for disrespect; I made sure to let her know that the form did not have ‘disrespect’ as a reason for suspension, only detention.
Personally, I consider it very important to know the rules, laws, commitments, etc., for which I may be responsible, so when I or someone else breaks them, I can clearly note it.
Far out. That is important.
As for your story, it’s something I would have done but I hope you understand that a little tact could have gone a long way.
What I was trying to get at you seem to think also. You think you are sending a ‘weak signal’ that you are committed to something. But you are using words that I think many around here would be suspicious of (e.g. oath and sworn).
You can say you will do something. If someone doesn’t trust that assertion, how will they ever trust ‘no really I’m serious’.
You can say you will do something. If someone doesn’t trust that assertion, how will they ever trust ‘no really I’m serious’.
Perhaps through enforcement. There are a significant number of laws, regulations, and directives that cover US Federal employees, and the oath I linked to above is a signed and sworn statement indicating the fact that I am aware of and accept responsibility for them.
She asked me if I would like to be suspended for disrespect; I made sure to let her know that the form did not have ‘disrespect’ as a reason for suspension, only detention.
You prefer more time locked up in school than less?
My explanation: It is ironic that ‘more time at school after it finishes’ is used as a punishment and yet ‘days off school’ is considered a worse punishment.
Given the chance I would go back in time and explain to my younger self that just because something is presented as a punishment or ‘worse punishment’ doesn’t mean you have to prefer to avoid it. Further, I would explain that getting what he wants does not always require following the rules presented to him. He can make his own rules, chose among preferred consequences.
While I never actually got either a detention or a suspension, I would have to say I’d prefer the suspension.
In theory but I wonder how long it has been since you were in school. In GA they got around to making a rule that if you were suspended you would lose your drivers license. Also, suspensions typically imply a 0 on all assignments (and possibly tests) that were due for its duration.
My explanation: It is ironic that ‘more time at school after it finishes’ is used as a punishment and yet ‘days off school’ is considered a worse punishment.
Given the chance I would go back in time and explain to my younger self that just because something is presented as a punishment or ‘worse punishment’ doesn’t mean you have to prefer to avoid it. Further, I would explain that getting what he wants does not always require following the rules presented to him. He can make his own rules, chose among preferred consequences.
While I never actually got either a detention or a suspension, I would have to say I’d prefer the suspension.
Oaths in general can be a form of precommitment and a weak signal that someone ascribes to certain moral or legal values, though no one seemed to take it seriously in this instance. On my first day, it was just another piece of paper in with all the other forms they wanted me to sign, and they took it away right after a perfunctory reading. I had to search it out online to remember just what it was I had sworn to do. Later, I learned some people didn’t even remember they had taken it.
Personally, I consider it very important to know the rules, laws, commitments, etc., for which I may be responsible, so when I or someone else breaks them, I can clearly note it.
For example, in middle school, one of my teachers didn’t like me whispering to the person sitting next to me in class. When she asked what I was doing, I told her that I was explaining the lesson, since she did a poor job of it. She asked me if I would like to be suspended for disrespect; I made sure to let her know that the form did not have ‘disrespect’ as a reason for suspension, only detention.
Far out. That is important.
As for your story, it’s something I would have done but I hope you understand that a little tact could have gone a long way.
What I was trying to get at you seem to think also. You think you are sending a ‘weak signal’ that you are committed to something. But you are using words that I think many around here would be suspicious of (e.g. oath and sworn).
You can say you will do something. If someone doesn’t trust that assertion, how will they ever trust ‘no really I’m serious’.
Perhaps through enforcement. There are a significant number of laws, regulations, and directives that cover US Federal employees, and the oath I linked to above is a signed and sworn statement indicating the fact that I am aware of and accept responsibility for them.
You prefer more time locked up in school than less?
No.
My explanation: It is ironic that ‘more time at school after it finishes’ is used as a punishment and yet ‘days off school’ is considered a worse punishment.
Given the chance I would go back in time and explain to my younger self that just because something is presented as a punishment or ‘worse punishment’ doesn’t mean you have to prefer to avoid it. Further, I would explain that getting what he wants does not always require following the rules presented to him. He can make his own rules, chose among preferred consequences.
While I never actually got either a detention or a suspension, I would have to say I’d prefer the suspension.
In theory but I wonder how long it has been since you were in school. In GA they got around to making a rule that if you were suspended you would lose your drivers license. Also, suspensions typically imply a 0 on all assignments (and possibly tests) that were due for its duration.
As a teacher or a student? 4 years and respectively.
My explanation: It is ironic that ‘more time at school after it finishes’ is used as a punishment and yet ‘days off school’ is considered a worse punishment.
Given the chance I would go back in time and explain to my younger self that just because something is presented as a punishment or ‘worse punishment’ doesn’t mean you have to prefer to avoid it. Further, I would explain that getting what he wants does not always require following the rules presented to him. He can make his own rules, chose among preferred consequences.
While I never actually got either a detention or a suspension, I would have to say I’d prefer the suspension.
I have a martyr complex.