I’m a male who is fortunate enough to never feel jealousy, attractive/skilled enough to make girls want to sleep with me, and volatile enough that I can’t handle any drama no matter how small. So I went for the most logical choice: have many fuck buddies at once without getting “romantic” with anyone.
For some reason, most girls that end up sticking with me like the fact that I’m sleeping with other girls too. I discovered that more or less by chance. At first I didn’t tell anyone anything about anyone else, “don’t ask don’t tell”, but then I noticed some girls were genuinely curious and enjoyed what I had to tell them without getting upset. I’d never let them know each other’s personal details or meet in real life though, because I had a couple disastrous experiences like that.
Before you ask, yes, I’ve tried monogamy for 7 years with my first girlfriend. It didn’t work out and I felt like I wasted the best years of my life (17 to 24), so I switched into slut mode rather than look for stable girlfriend #2. This lifestyle takes a lot of effort—males don’t really have a shared culture of “being attractive and alluring” the way girls do, so I’m figuring it out as I go along—but it’s definitely worth it.
I’m a male who is fortunate enough to never feel jealousy, attractive/skilled enough to make girls want to sleep with me, and volatile enough that I can’t handle any drama no matter how small. So I went for the most logical choice: have many fuck buddies at once without getting “romantic” with anyone.
For some reason, most girls that end up sticking with me like the fact that I’m sleeping with other girls too. I discovered that more or less by chance. At first I didn’t tell anyone anything about anyone else, “don’t ask don’t tell”, but then I noticed some girls were genuinely curious and enjoyed what I had to tell them without getting upset. I’d never let them know each other’s personal details or meet in real life though, because I had a couple disastrous experiences like that.
Before you ask, yes, I’ve tried monogamy for 7 years with my first girlfriend. It didn’t work out and I felt like I wasted the best years of my life (17 to 24), so I switched into slut mode rather than look for stable girlfriend #2. This lifestyle takes a lot of effort—males don’t really have a shared culture of “being attractive and alluring” the way girls do, so I’m figuring it out as I go along—but it’s definitely worth it.