I see. You have a few slots available and you’d like to fill them with lengthy stable commitments, so preserving stability requires giving up changing the slots. (I was thinking more of short-term and more casual dating relationships, where I don’t think this consideration applies.)
N.B. Some of us think only of long-term relationships, and never had a concept of “casual dating relationships” that aren’t an effort to start a long-term commitment.
I see. You have a few slots available and you’d like to fill them with lengthy stable commitments, so preserving stability requires giving up changing the slots. (I was thinking more of short-term and more casual dating relationships, where I don’t think this consideration applies.)
N.B. Some of us think only of long-term relationships, and never had a concept of “casual dating relationships” that aren’t an effort to start a long-term commitment.
In the spirit of the original post: why did you choose to only have long-term relationships?