Let us stipulate that your cousin is indeed psychic. This is not a purely spiritual phenomenon. Then there is certainly correlation between me drawing QH and between him saying “queen of hearts”. Probably no direct causal link—I’d guess it has intermediate nodes related to patterns of neurons in his brain—but the graph certainly has a path between the two nodes.
If something does not correlate with anything, then it is not real in the sense that it does not determine your experiences.
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Let us stipulate that your cousin is indeed psychic. This is not a purely spiritual phenomenon. Then there is certainly correlation between me drawing QH and between him saying “queen of hearts”. Probably no direct causal link—I’d guess it has intermediate nodes related to patterns of neurons in his brain—but the graph certainly has a path between the two nodes.
If something does not correlate with anything, then it is not real in the sense that it does not determine your experiences.