In its worst form, the position that you’re not allowed to have a view on an issue (or that any possible view is invalid) because you are not the oppressed party.
That when I have advantages you don’t, I am less likely to notice the problems in our shared environment that my advantages compensate for than you are, and therefore when you discuss a problem in our shared environment that I don’t experience, I ought not treat my own experience as definitive on the matter.
EDIT: When used in the second person imperative specifically, as here, it carries the additional implication that the person to whom it is addressed is violating that normative rule.
How about in its best form?
That when I have advantages you don’t, I am less likely to notice the problems in our shared environment that my advantages compensate for than you are, and therefore when you discuss a problem in our shared environment that I don’t experience, I ought not treat my own experience as definitive on the matter.
EDIT: When used in the second person imperative specifically, as here, it carries the additional implication that the person to whom it is addressed is violating that normative rule.