The article isn’t saying Leonard isn’t the better/more moral person, it’s saying that he’s the underdog. That much is obvious. Ask yourself which is more likely, that someone like Leonard rejects someone like Penny, or that someone like Penny rejects someone like Leonard (short, socially awkward, cloying, and beset with infantile obsessions like comic books and video games).
If he had known Penny better and if, by the time he’d known her, he wasn’t already so invested emotionally that he’s blind to her faults, he would never have considered her as a viable partner in the first place
Unfortunately, many terrible love stories follow a similar pattern; initiated on insufficient information, and by the time information is found out such that, had it been known previously, the relationship wouldn’t have been initiated in the first place, a biochemical version of the Sunken Cost Fallacy sets in.
“Influence, Science And Practice” is one hell of a book.
The article isn’t saying Leonard isn’t the better/more moral person, it’s saying that he’s the underdog. That much is obvious. Ask yourself which is more likely, that someone like Leonard rejects someone like Penny, or that someone like Penny rejects someone like Leonard (short, socially awkward, cloying, and beset with infantile obsessions like comic books and video games).
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If he had known Penny better and if, by the time he’d known her, he wasn’t already so invested emotionally that he’s blind to her faults, he would never have considered her as a viable partner in the first place
Unfortunately, many terrible love stories follow a similar pattern; initiated on insufficient information, and by the time information is found out such that, had it been known previously, the relationship wouldn’t have been initiated in the first place, a biochemical version of the Sunken Cost Fallacy sets in.
“Influence, Science And Practice” is one hell of a book.