With the next couple of partners I have, I think I’ll ask if we could get some learning done. As in, play the Four Seasons, and tell each other if we’re off tune or in the wrong rhytm or need to tune the strings. And ask proactively, too.
There is a chance your partner will not share your enthusiasm for explicit communication.
There are people who refuse to communicate about sex at all.
There are people who sometimes spontaneously provide useful feedback, but otherwise they either refuse to communicate, or their answer is “I don’t know”. (This can actually still work well, if the rare feedback is good.) Maybe they need to experience something dozen times to make up their mind, dunno.
There is a chance your partner will not share your enthusiasm for explicit communication.
There are people who refuse to communicate about sex at all.
There are people who sometimes spontaneously provide useful feedback, but otherwise they either refuse to communicate, or their answer is “I don’t know”. (This can actually still work well, if the rare feedback is good.) Maybe they need to experience something dozen times to make up their mind, dunno.
Yep, some people won’t share that enthusiasm, and I guess that’s okay-ish. Would make long-term things harder than necessary though.