Yeah, you’re right—I’m equivocating between learning from “feedback from listener” and “feedback from master of the skill”. Thanks for the links, I’ll put them on The List.
(Hmm, now that I’m seeing them on Goodreads they seem to be about male-female-sex-for-male-readers, which lowers their value for me as I’m pan, but then, writing gender-general sex advice is probably harder than specific-combination advice...)
I think that’s more true for the book of Daniel Rose book but not of Nicole Daedone. I think Slow Sex is general.
Even for Daniel’s book the core concepts of Dominance, Emotion, Variety and Immersion are likely also applicable to other sex configurations.
Take for example the principle of variety. Given what you wrote in the OP it sounds like you search for the one best way of doing things. That’s however a way of approaching sex that can reduce the variety and thus reduce the enjoyment. I would expect that principle to also be valuable in homosexual sex and see no reason why it would only be important for male-female-sex-for-male-readers.
Yeah, you’re right—I’m equivocating between learning from “feedback from listener” and “feedback from master of the skill”. Thanks for the links, I’ll put them on The List.
(Hmm, now that I’m seeing them on Goodreads they seem to be about male-female-sex-for-male-readers, which lowers their value for me as I’m pan, but then, writing gender-general sex advice is probably harder than specific-combination advice...)
I think that’s more true for the book of Daniel Rose book but not of Nicole Daedone. I think Slow Sex is general.
Even for Daniel’s book the core concepts of Dominance, Emotion, Variety and Immersion are likely also applicable to other sex configurations.
Take for example the principle of variety. Given what you wrote in the OP it sounds like you search for the one best way of doing things. That’s however a way of approaching sex that can reduce the variety and thus reduce the enjoyment. I would expect that principle to also be valuable in homosexual sex and see no reason why it would only be important for male-female-sex-for-male-readers.