How do you square this with the other post you made today about how if you don’t like the way a group is going, you should spend more time with a different group? Isn’t it true that if everyone followed your advice from the “Diversify Your Friendship Portfolio” post, any tendency a group took which some people didn’t like would cause those people to spend less time with the group, which would reinforce that tendency (since the people who dislike it are no longer around), which would eventually result some form of a schism?
(I’m not saying I have a solution to this. It appears to be a sort of collective action/public goods problem among folks which don’t like the new tendency.)
How do you square this with the other post you made today about how if you don’t like the way a group is going, you should spend more time with a different group? Isn’t it true that if everyone followed your advice from the “Diversify Your Friendship Portfolio” post, any tendency a group took which some people didn’t like would cause those people to spend less time with the group, which would reinforce that tendency (since the people who dislike it are no longer around), which would eventually result some form of a schism?
(I’m not saying I have a solution to this. It appears to be a sort of collective action/public goods problem among folks which don’t like the new tendency.)