Slightly off topic here, but even in cases where it is “just willpower” that a person needs, anecdotal experiences suggest that said willpower is often more easily obtained by strategy than by, um, willpower. For example, I was unable to do much of anything in college, and stressing out about it (which is what I somehow thought “willpower” was; I wasn’t very intrapersonally sophisticated) didn’t help, and eventually trying to investigate how I worked and how to sort of rewire the relevant skillsets, did help. Similarly, someone I know well yo-yo dieted for a couple decades, literally (though with longish pauses), then used the Beck CBT book to successfully stick to one of those same diets. (I realize willpower of any variety won’t help some with healthy weight loss. I don’t mean the example like that. It’s just interesting that even willpower kind of isn’t about willpower.)
Slightly off topic here, but even in cases where it is “just willpower” that a person needs, anecdotal experiences suggest that said willpower is often more easily obtained by strategy than by, um, willpower. For example, I was unable to do much of anything in college, and stressing out about it (which is what I somehow thought “willpower” was; I wasn’t very intrapersonally sophisticated) didn’t help, and eventually trying to investigate how I worked and how to sort of rewire the relevant skillsets, did help. Similarly, someone I know well yo-yo dieted for a couple decades, literally (though with longish pauses), then used the Beck CBT book to successfully stick to one of those same diets. (I realize willpower of any variety won’t help some with healthy weight loss. I don’t mean the example like that. It’s just interesting that even willpower kind of isn’t about willpower.)