Personally, I would say that neither of those is wrong (per se, anyway), and I don’t think the situations are very analogous. But I certainly agree with your last sentence (both that we apply different standards, and that we shouldn’t).
Personally, I would say that neither of those is wrong (per se, anyway), and I don’t think the situations are very analogous. But I certainly agree with your last sentence (both that we apply different standards, and that we shouldn’t).