I routinely use “a couple” and “a few” to indicate vague quantities. A few is bigger than a couple, but they overlap. I know that not everyone does this (my S.O., in particular, thinks I’m wrong) but I also know that I’m not nearly alone in this habit.
Yes, certainly, there are circumstances in which “a couple” means exactly two. If I’m talking about some friends, and refer to them as “a couple” rather than “a couple of people”, you’d be justified to think I meant exactly two people with some relationship. But if I say “I’m going to read a couple more pages”, I think you’d be making a mistake to be upset as long as it was between 1.5 and 4 pages. When I say “a few” it might range from 1.7 to 5 or 6 depending on whether we’re talking about potatoes or french fries.
So, to my ears, it could be the 16th century or the mid-18th century, and giving the benefit of the doubt, it’s a reasonable statement.
I routinely use “a couple” and “a few” to indicate vague quantities. A few is bigger than a couple, but they overlap. I know that not everyone does this (my S.O., in particular, thinks I’m wrong) but I also know that I’m not nearly alone in this habit.
Yes, certainly, there are circumstances in which “a couple” means exactly two. If I’m talking about some friends, and refer to them as “a couple” rather than “a couple of people”, you’d be justified to think I meant exactly two people with some relationship. But if I say “I’m going to read a couple more pages”, I think you’d be making a mistake to be upset as long as it was between 1.5 and 4 pages. When I say “a few” it might range from 1.7 to 5 or 6 depending on whether we’re talking about potatoes or french fries.
So, to my ears, it could be the 16th century or the mid-18th century, and giving the benefit of the doubt, it’s a reasonable statement.
Upvoted because I do the same thing (tell your SO!). You’re not alone.
A couple is two. There are other quite specific names for when you add a third.