It took me a bit to figure out you meant neurotypical rather than iNtuitive-Thinking.
I think everyone would rather get what they want without having to take the trouble of asking for it clearly. In extreme cases, they don’t even want to take the trouble to formulate what they want clearly to themselves.
And, yeah, flamebaitish. I don’t know if you’ve read accounts by women who’ve been abused by male partners, but one common feature of the men is expecting to automatically get what they want.
It would be interesting to look at whether some behavior which is considered abusive by men is considered annoying but tolerable if it’s done by women. Of course the degree of enforcement matters.
It took me a bit to figure out you meant neurotypical rather than iNtuitive-Thinking.
I think everyone would rather get what they want without having to take the trouble of asking for it clearly. In extreme cases, they don’t even want to take the trouble to formulate what they want clearly to themselves.
And, yeah, flamebaitish. I don’t know if you’ve read accounts by women who’ve been abused by male partners, but one common feature of the men is expecting to automatically get what they want.
It would be interesting to look at whether some behavior which is considered abusive by men is considered annoying but tolerable if it’s done by women. Of course the degree of enforcement matters.