Also, your preferences are what they are, there’s no room for ethical judgement here IMO.
Ah, the norm of high decoupling. OK, now I trust you to be one of us. :)
I am sincerely curious about male preferences, whether the answer is something “politically correct” or that men literally only care about boob size.
Uh, the topic of boob size is exactly one of those where I suspect that my preferences are not representative for men in general. I simply don’t care about this dimension too much. Like, I notice, of course, but it is not among the top 5 things, not even top 3 purely physical things (pretty face, long hair, no tattoos). However, stereotypes usually exist for a reason, so I suspect that many men see it differently.
(I can’t unpack what “pretty face” means for me. I know it when I see it. I couldn’t write the algorithm my brain uses, but it results in an impression that the person is smart and nice. Could be halo effect, though.)
I happen to like pink, but what does it mean that my behavior should match?
Actually, I don’t know. (Intuitively “don’t look like an old woman who desperately pretends to be young”, but that is a description of an outcome, not a recipe how to achieve it.) Maybe ignore this part. Sorry.
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Something I just read on internet: Try complimenting men. Most men never get compliments; they will remember you for the rest of their lives.
And I guess one thing that applies to both sexes: meet more people, be more visible. It’s a numbers game. Whenever you meet someone, there is a certain probability it will be the right person; this probability is multiplied by the number of people you meet.
Ah, the norm of high decoupling. OK, now I trust you to be one of us. :)
Uh, the topic of boob size is exactly one of those where I suspect that my preferences are not representative for men in general. I simply don’t care about this dimension too much. Like, I notice, of course, but it is not among the top 5 things, not even top 3 purely physical things (pretty face, long hair, no tattoos). However, stereotypes usually exist for a reason, so I suspect that many men see it differently.
(I can’t unpack what “pretty face” means for me. I know it when I see it. I couldn’t write the algorithm my brain uses, but it results in an impression that the person is smart and nice. Could be halo effect, though.)
Actually, I don’t know. (Intuitively “don’t look like an old woman who desperately pretends to be young”, but that is a description of an outcome, not a recipe how to achieve it.) Maybe ignore this part. Sorry.
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Something I just read on internet: Try complimenting men. Most men never get compliments; they will remember you for the rest of their lives.
And I guess one thing that applies to both sexes: meet more people, be more visible. It’s a numbers game. Whenever you meet someone, there is a certain probability it will be the right person; this probability is multiplied by the number of people you meet.