you could probably port that to a lot of situations where ‘playing by the rules’ (aka. aiming for the stated target) will leave you worse off than critically judging a situation, reading through the rules, integrating context and inferring the real goal in a given situation...
PUA vs. women’s stated preferences in men, I’m looking in your general direction here.
PUA vs. women’s stated preferences in men, I’m looking in your general direction here.
(PUA = pick-up artist strategies)