Yeah, I totally think your perspective makes sense and I appreciate you bringing it up, even though I disagree.
I acknowledge that someone who has good justifications for their position but just has made a bunch of reasonable confidentiality agreements around the topic should expect to run into a bunch of difficulties and stresses around public conflicts and arguments.
I think you go too far in saying that the stress is orthogonal to whether you have a good case to make, I think you can’t really think that it’s not a top-3 factor to how much stress you’re experiencing. As a pretty simple hypothetical, if you’re responding to a public scandal about whether you stole money, you’re gonna have a way more stressful time if you did steal money than if you didn’t (in substantial part because you’d be able to show the books and prove it).
Perhaps not so much disagreeing with you in particular, but disagreeing with my sense of what was being agreed upon in Zac’s comment and in the reacts, I further wanted to raise my hypothesis that a lot of the confidentiality constraints are unwarranted and actively obfuscatory, which does change who is responsible for the stress, but doesn’t change the fact that there is stress.
Added: Also, I think we would both agree that there would be less stress if there were fewer confidentiality restrictions.
Yeah, I totally think your perspective makes sense and I appreciate you bringing it up, even though I disagree.
I acknowledge that someone who has good justifications for their position but just has made a bunch of reasonable confidentiality agreements around the topic should expect to run into a bunch of difficulties and stresses around public conflicts and arguments.
I think you go too far in saying that the stress is orthogonal to whether you have a good case to make, I think you can’t really think that it’s not a top-3 factor to how much stress you’re experiencing. As a pretty simple hypothetical, if you’re responding to a public scandal about whether you stole money, you’re gonna have a way more stressful time if you did steal money than if you didn’t (in substantial part because you’d be able to show the books and prove it).
Perhaps not so much disagreeing with you in particular, but disagreeing with my sense of what was being agreed upon in Zac’s comment and in the reacts, I further wanted to raise my hypothesis that a lot of the confidentiality constraints are unwarranted and actively obfuscatory, which does change who is responsible for the stress, but doesn’t change the fact that there is stress.
Added: Also, I think we would both agree that there would be less stress if there were fewer confidentiality restrictions.