On the other hand, not being talked to at all can seem unwelcoming. My impression is that “How did you hear about the group?” is a good starting point.
I like that. Beats “come here often?”, but still seems relatively neutral on in/out group. And of course it’s better to talk to them than not.
On the other hand, not being talked to at all can seem unwelcoming. My impression is that “How did you hear about the group?” is a good starting point.
I like that. Beats “come here often?”, but still seems relatively neutral on in/out group. And of course it’s better to talk to them than not.