Inklesspen, I also believe in respecting the guy’s autonomy. But it sounds like he might be willing to listen to someone who accepts the possible validity of his negative feelings and treats those feelings with respect.
The best reason for going on living is simply to see what happens next. Tell your friend to find and watch the video “Little Miss Sunshine”. Suggest that suicide might make sense, but then so might taking anti-depressant medication. But if he wants to try both, he has to do it in the right order. Shift him from talking about suicide to joking about suicide.
But, as I’ve already said, there are people who can give better advice than mine. Find out what they say.
I believe he does take medication; I remember him saying his psychologist started him on Abilify and he was terrified that Abilify would cause permanent muscle tics, as apparently it does in rare cases.
If he has a psychologist then there’s not much you can do directly to help. That’s sort of their job. However, it may help to just be there for him. And when he says something that’s obviously negative about himself and likely to be wrong, explain why it is wrong. That won’t do much, but it might help a tiny bit.
Inklesspen, I also believe in respecting the guy’s autonomy. But it sounds like he might be willing to listen to someone who accepts the possible validity of his negative feelings and treats those feelings with respect.
The best reason for going on living is simply to see what happens next. Tell your friend to find and watch the video “Little Miss Sunshine”. Suggest that suicide might make sense, but then so might taking anti-depressant medication. But if he wants to try both, he has to do it in the right order. Shift him from talking about suicide to joking about suicide.
But, as I’ve already said, there are people who can give better advice than mine. Find out what they say.
I believe he does take medication; I remember him saying his psychologist started him on Abilify and he was terrified that Abilify would cause permanent muscle tics, as apparently it does in rare cases.
If he has a psychologist then there’s not much you can do directly to help. That’s sort of their job. However, it may help to just be there for him. And when he says something that’s obviously negative about himself and likely to be wrong, explain why it is wrong. That won’t do much, but it might help a tiny bit.