Insofar as it’s required for you to pretend that people are nicer than they are to be kind to them, I think you should do that. But your impact will be better if you at least note it if that’s what you’re doing
Unlikely to work for Mr. Portman. Living the life of systematic lies and pretension is difficult and cognitively demanding. Being pro-socially self-deceived to some degree is a much simpler strategy, which is probably why evolution converged on it (paired with some amount of psychopathy to balance/exploit excesses).
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Most people obviously aren’t cut out for that, and are happier for it, if they live in a reasonably high-trust society.
Unlikely to work for Mr. Portman. Living the life of systematic lies and pretension is difficult and cognitively demanding. Being pro-socially self-deceived to some degree is a much simpler strategy, which is probably why evolution converged on it (paired with some amount of psychopathy to balance/exploit excesses).
Most people obviously aren’t cut out for that, and are happier for it, if they live in a reasonably high-trust society.