I found most of the conference to otherwise be overly regimented without enough unstructured time.
I actually agree with this completely. That was my main piece of constructive advice for the conference: more unstructured time. The best conversations were around the hot tub. Funny how that works.
That is not your call to make. If you don’t like how the conference is run, don’t go. Encourage others not to go by telling them how the event is organized, not by throwing around wild, entitled accusations of mental illness. There is no evidence that the conference organizer is mentally ill. Writing “lol” is the functional equivalent of pointing and laughing—what gave you the right to point and laugh? You shouldn’t be surprised that appearing and being petty is not rewarded in this forum.
If you had written what iceman wrote, you wouldn’t have been downvoted. NPOV writing enhances credibility, and you are going out of your way to avoid NPOV. In fact, you seem surprised that your wisecracking is not being appreciated.
I’m sympathetic to the people hurt by the conference organizer. I have suspicions about behind the scenes issues that the conference organizer has not revealed because the issues would make the organizer look bad—even if they aren’t illegal or immoral or even the organizer’s fault.
By contrast, your original post seems uninterested in their problems or in the quality of the conference, except as a bloody shirt for you to wield to support your ad hominem attacks.
That is not your call to make. If you don’t like how the conference is run, don’t go. Encourage others not to go by telling them how the event is organized, not by throwing around wild, entitled accusations of mental illness.
You have made this reply to Hank in response to (perhaps) the only comment by Hank in this thread to which it isn’t a valid response.
The grandparent (in particular and perhaps to the exclusion of the other rants) is an entirely legitimate position. Giving an evaluation on which component is most valuable is his call. You don’t need to agree with it and the organizers do not need to comply with the advice but he is not “out of his place” to make it.
Given the rest of the context, (particularly hankx7787′s other response to iceman’s post), I’m not confident that he understands the distinction between appropriate criticism and the organizer being required to follow his advice.
But I agree with you that the distinction is valid, and criticism without the necessity to comply is completely appropriate in this context.
Why don’t you tell me that it’s ok to screw our friends with an enormous, unexpected bill because your contract was garbage and it would hurt the program’s budget to treat them fairly? Even though it’s against all of your your own instrumental goals, even though you have no legal basis, even though that’s an incredibly heartless, dick thing to do.
You seem to be suggesting that’s perfectly rational behavior and not crazy at all, so why don’t you elaborate on that.
“It would hurt the program’s budget to treat them fairly” could be perfectly rational behavior. You don’t know the event organizer’s instrumental goals—although there does appear to be some disconnect between the expressed goals and the revealed preferences.
The event organizer’s actions might even be legal (“Your contract is garbage,” without a lot more context, is not a legal argument).
It’s still a jerk move. And I sympathize with the people being hurt by it.
Still, I don’t care about Cryonics events. I’m writing only to try and help you calibrate how to write persuasively and informatively.
I’m not trying to write persuasively. I already have all the information in the first place. I know the organizers reasons, she told them to me. I know the contract is garbage, I just looked at it last night to make certain I was actually corresponding fully with reality here. If I wanted to be persuasive I would have just laid all of that on the line. But I don’t want to do that here. I’m not trying to persuade the people who don’t believe me, I’m just trying to make sure anybody who seriously cares about this can see it, and knows they can get more information from me if they want it in order to better make a decision. Since it’s relatively costless to simply ask me for the evidence, it’s silly for anybody who seriously cares about the answer to complain that they don’t believe me without even asking.
You aren’t writing informatively either, because you have a clear axe to grind beyond informing others of what happened. Also, a well written piece doesn’t require additional clarification. If you can’t write a good essay without including information you would hesitate to reveal publicly, then no publicly available good essay is writable.
I wrote elsewhere about different possible meanings of believing you. Suffice it to say that one could believe iceman and still not believe you. That’s essentially where I’m at—and I have no intention of investigating further, because I’m not someone who seriously cares about this issue.
You seem to think the social pressure that led iceman to post has caused a serious harm to iceman (or others). I acknowledge the social pressure, but don’t see the serious harm that you seem to see. Given that I’ve never heard of this event before, retaliation by the organizer beyond exclusion from future events is so remote as to be unimaginable by me.
I actually agree with this completely. That was my main piece of constructive advice for the conference: more unstructured time. The best conversations were around the hot tub. Funny how that works.
Hank,
That is not your call to make. If you don’t like how the conference is run, don’t go. Encourage others not to go by telling them how the event is organized, not by throwing around wild, entitled accusations of mental illness. There is no evidence that the conference organizer is mentally ill. Writing “lol” is the functional equivalent of pointing and laughing—what gave you the right to point and laugh? You shouldn’t be surprised that appearing and being petty is not rewarded in this forum.
If you had written what iceman wrote, you wouldn’t have been downvoted. NPOV writing enhances credibility, and you are going out of your way to avoid NPOV. In fact, you seem surprised that your wisecracking is not being appreciated.
I’m sympathetic to the people hurt by the conference organizer. I have suspicions about behind the scenes issues that the conference organizer has not revealed because the issues would make the organizer look bad—even if they aren’t illegal or immoral or even the organizer’s fault.
By contrast, your original post seems uninterested in their problems or in the quality of the conference, except as a bloody shirt for you to wield to support your ad hominem attacks.
You have made this reply to Hank in response to (perhaps) the only comment by Hank in this thread to which it isn’t a valid response.
The grandparent (in particular and perhaps to the exclusion of the other rants) is an entirely legitimate position. Giving an evaluation on which component is most valuable is his call. You don’t need to agree with it and the organizers do not need to comply with the advice but he is not “out of his place” to make it.
Given the rest of the context, (particularly hankx7787′s other response to iceman’s post), I’m not confident that he understands the distinction between appropriate criticism and the organizer being required to follow his advice.
But I agree with you that the distinction is valid, and criticism without the necessity to comply is completely appropriate in this context.
So why don’t you respond down here?
http://lesswrong.com/r/discussion/lw/gys/young_cryonicist_gathering_warning/8loh
Why don’t you tell me that it’s ok to screw our friends with an enormous, unexpected bill because your contract was garbage and it would hurt the program’s budget to treat them fairly? Even though it’s against all of your your own instrumental goals, even though you have no legal basis, even though that’s an incredibly heartless, dick thing to do.
You seem to be suggesting that’s perfectly rational behavior and not crazy at all, so why don’t you elaborate on that.
“It would hurt the program’s budget to treat them fairly” could be perfectly rational behavior. You don’t know the event organizer’s instrumental goals—although there does appear to be some disconnect between the expressed goals and the revealed preferences.
The event organizer’s actions might even be legal (“Your contract is garbage,” without a lot more context, is not a legal argument).
It’s still a jerk move. And I sympathize with the people being hurt by it.
Still, I don’t care about Cryonics events. I’m writing only to try and help you calibrate how to write persuasively and informatively.
I’m not trying to write persuasively. I already have all the information in the first place. I know the organizers reasons, she told them to me. I know the contract is garbage, I just looked at it last night to make certain I was actually corresponding fully with reality here. If I wanted to be persuasive I would have just laid all of that on the line. But I don’t want to do that here. I’m not trying to persuade the people who don’t believe me, I’m just trying to make sure anybody who seriously cares about this can see it, and knows they can get more information from me if they want it in order to better make a decision. Since it’s relatively costless to simply ask me for the evidence, it’s silly for anybody who seriously cares about the answer to complain that they don’t believe me without even asking.
You aren’t writing informatively either, because you have a clear axe to grind beyond informing others of what happened. Also, a well written piece doesn’t require additional clarification. If you can’t write a good essay without including information you would hesitate to reveal publicly, then no publicly available good essay is writable.
I wrote elsewhere about different possible meanings of believing you. Suffice it to say that one could believe iceman and still not believe you. That’s essentially where I’m at—and I have no intention of investigating further, because I’m not someone who seriously cares about this issue.
You seem to think the social pressure that led iceman to post has caused a serious harm to iceman (or others). I acknowledge the social pressure, but don’t see the serious harm that you seem to see. Given that I’ve never heard of this event before, retaliation by the organizer beyond exclusion from future events is so remote as to be unimaginable by me.
And I’m tapping out.