Men (with asperg syndrome)...may suffer feelings of inadequacy if they appear to be performing less well than the women that are around them..
If you idealize a woman and seek the perfect woman, you will appear to be performing less well than your image of the person.
To avoid that effect it’s good to have a relationship with a person where you also see their flaws and you both can be open about your flaws.
If you idealize a woman and seek the perfect woman, you will appear to be performing less well than your image of the person. To avoid that effect it’s good to have a relationship with a person where you also see their flaws and you both can be open about your flaws.
I had never contemplated this perspective before you suggested it, and it’s immediately compelling. Thank you.