The different payoffs for complaining explain the presence of complaining. They don’t explain the absence of… anti-complaining. As in: “girls, I seriously don’t know what is your problem; I am a woman, and LW is the most friendly website ever”.
That doesn’t strike me as something that needs explaining. Lesswrong isn’t the most friendly website (and nor should it be!)
That doesn’t strike me as something that needs explaining. Lesswrong isn’t the most friendly website (and nor should it be!)