But are they sure that the men aren’t similarly punished, even when expected to be aggressive?
For example, people may expect men to be aggressive. But other men are expected to be aggressive back. So you can be punished, while still doing what’s expected. Basically, it’s called losing in a competitive environment.
But there is a problem with our discussion. We’re talking an undefined categorical situation. Everyone reading it can insert their own scenario as a prototype, leaving no one talking about the same thing.
This thread on “hostile unfriendly tone” is suffering from a severe lack of concrete details. Without concretes, we’re just projecting the situations we find problematic onto the schema.
I don’t know if they’re sure. Mostly I was just responding to the “who are they supposed to have learned that from?”. I think there are a lot of social, gender expectation-y things that would lead to women thinking that they were “supposed” to be less assertive.
But are they sure that the men aren’t similarly punished, even when expected to be aggressive?
For example, people may expect men to be aggressive. But other men are expected to be aggressive back. So you can be punished, while still doing what’s expected. Basically, it’s called losing in a competitive environment.
But there is a problem with our discussion. We’re talking an undefined categorical situation. Everyone reading it can insert their own scenario as a prototype, leaving no one talking about the same thing.
This thread on “hostile unfriendly tone” is suffering from a severe lack of concrete details. Without concretes, we’re just projecting the situations we find problematic onto the schema.
I don’t know if they’re sure. Mostly I was just responding to the “who are they supposed to have learned that from?”. I think there are a lot of social, gender expectation-y things that would lead to women thinking that they were “supposed” to be less assertive.