Sort-of. I can generate original ideas in real time IF by real time you mean ’thinking about my ideas when I’m speaking and half thinking half listening when the other person is speaking”. That’s not the best conversational dynamic though. It’s better when I actually allow/create pauses between listening to the other person and thinking (the opposite dynamic from my more common mode of interrupting the other person). If my thoughts are a few seconds ahead of my words much of the time when I’m talking I’m more likely to be able to spare enough attention to notice the other person’s feelings. Likewise, if I’m fully listening to them I’m more likely to catch nuances and deepen my understanding faster. Also, my thoughts are partially transparent. If I’m not fully listening the person is likely to get that impression, not feel understood, make less effort to understand me, and waste conversational time by repetition in order to ensure that they are understood.
Sort-of. I can generate original ideas in real time IF by real time you mean ’thinking about my ideas when I’m speaking and half thinking half listening when the other person is speaking”. That’s not the best conversational dynamic though. It’s better when I actually allow/create pauses between listening to the other person and thinking (the opposite dynamic from my more common mode of interrupting the other person). If my thoughts are a few seconds ahead of my words much of the time when I’m talking I’m more likely to be able to spare enough attention to notice the other person’s feelings. Likewise, if I’m fully listening to them I’m more likely to catch nuances and deepen my understanding faster. Also, my thoughts are partially transparent. If I’m not fully listening the person is likely to get that impression, not feel understood, make less effort to understand me, and waste conversational time by repetition in order to ensure that they are understood.