Sorry, you’re right—I’m speaking out of frustration regarding a) people’s inability to explain (remember my upcoming article), and b) the past instances of let-them-eat-cake sociality advice. Vive-ut-Vivas isn’t the first extrovert to do so here, and she won’t be the last. I will try to be more productive with future replies.
I understand your frustration. I should have made it clear that I wasn’t attempting to help people who are trying to get to the barrier of making small talk in the first place; I was directing my advice to those who are interested in making the transition from small talk to interesting conversation. You’re right that I haven’t been particularly helpful in addressing that first point. I think that with some reflection I might be able to give decent advice on that topic, but that will require more introspection.
I haven’t been particularly helpful in addressing that first point. I think that with some reflection I might be able to give decent advice on that topic, but that will require more introspection.
Sorry, you’re right—I’m speaking out of frustration regarding a) people’s inability to explain (remember my upcoming article), and b) the past instances of let-them-eat-cake sociality advice. Vive-ut-Vivas isn’t the first extrovert to do so here, and she won’t be the last. I will try to be more productive with future replies.
I understand your frustration. I should have made it clear that I wasn’t attempting to help people who are trying to get to the barrier of making small talk in the first place; I was directing my advice to those who are interested in making the transition from small talk to interesting conversation. You’re right that I haven’t been particularly helpful in addressing that first point. I think that with some reflection I might be able to give decent advice on that topic, but that will require more introspection.
I appreciate your saying this very much.