Making this private is a mistake. The only reason I might sometimes avoid messaging someone I wanted to have a dialog with, is a concern that the notification might annoy them. The dialog matching system still sends a notification and only makes it even more annoying by refusing to say who sent it or why.
I really hope none of the people matching with me wanted to dialog about something important, because it’s probably not going to end up happening.
Making this private is a mistake. The only reason I might sometimes avoid messaging someone I wanted to have a dialog with, is a concern that the notification might annoy them. The dialog matching system still sends a notification and only makes it even more annoying by refusing to say who sent it or why.
I really hope none of the people matching with me wanted to dialog about something important, because it’s probably not going to end up happening.