Regarding tone specifically, you have two strong options: one would be to send strong “I am playing” signals, such as by dropping the points which men’s rights people might make, and, say, parodying feminist points. Another would be to keep the tone as serious as it currently is, but qualify things more; in some other contexts, qualifying your arguments sounds low-status, but in discussions of contentious topics on a public forum, it can nudge participants towards cooperative truth-seeking mode.
Amusingly, I emphasized the points of your comment that I found agreeable in my first reply, both since you’re pretty cool, and also since I didn’t want the fact that I’m a hardcore feminist to be obvious enough to affect the discourse. However, to the extent which my reply was more serious than your comment, this could have made me look like the less feminist one out of the two of us :D
Regarding tone specifically, you have two strong options: one would be to send strong “I am playing” signals, such as by dropping the points which men’s rights people might make, and, say, parodying feminist points. Another would be to keep the tone as serious as it currently is, but qualify things more; in some other contexts, qualifying your arguments sounds low-status, but in discussions of contentious topics on a public forum, it can nudge participants towards cooperative truth-seeking mode.
Amusingly, I emphasized the points of your comment that I found agreeable in my first reply, both since you’re pretty cool, and also since I didn’t want the fact that I’m a hardcore feminist to be obvious enough to affect the discourse. However, to the extent which my reply was more serious than your comment, this could have made me look like the less feminist one out of the two of us :D
Thanks.