Every memorable apology I’ve ever gotten has hailed an update, although sometimes it lags a little bit- (eg person updates –> person spends some time applying the update to all affected beliefs –> person apologizes).
This mostly holds for apologies i’ve given as well, excluding a couple where transgression and apology were separated by enough years to make pinning it on a specific update difficult.
Every memorable apology I’ve ever gotten has hailed an update, although sometimes it lags a little bit- (eg person updates –> person spends some time applying the update to all affected beliefs –> person apologizes).
This mostly holds for apologies i’ve given as well, excluding a couple where transgression and apology were separated by enough years to make pinning it on a specific update difficult.