if you’re going to share incredibly personal details about “a friend”… we need to know if this information has been posted with her consent.
I think (or, anyway, hope) what you meant to write was “you need her consent before posting”, rather than “we need to know whether you obtained her consent [so that we can socially penalize you if it turns out you didn’t].”
Socially penalise, nothing. Something as personal as this, it’s deeply unusual not to make it clear that you have permission; my concern is for the privacy of person under discussion.
I think (or, anyway, hope) what you meant to write was “you need her consent before posting”, rather than “we need to know whether you obtained her consent [so that we can socially penalize you if it turns out you didn’t].”
Socially penalise, nothing. Something as personal as this, it’s deeply unusual not to make it clear that you have permission; my concern is for the privacy of person under discussion.