If you want to close a gap between who you believe you are and how you present yourselves to others in certain situations, I think that there’s a good chance coaching can help.
If you want to change who you are to match your own ideal of who you want to be, that may be possible, but much harder.
If you want to get dates, it’s probably possible to learn to fake your way well enough to do that. But be careful when, where, and how you do that, because it’s very easy for that path to get pretty dark.
If you want to find a partner, though, you don’t just want to be attractive to “women,” you want to find the subset of women who will be a good match for you, and around whom you can be yourself. See https://putanumonit.com/2016/02/03/015-dating_1/ for a much better discussion than I could ever manage.
What are your specific goals here?
If you want to close a gap between who you believe you are and how you present yourselves to others in certain situations, I think that there’s a good chance coaching can help.
If you want to change who you are to match your own ideal of who you want to be, that may be possible, but much harder.
If you want to get dates, it’s probably possible to learn to fake your way well enough to do that. But be careful when, where, and how you do that, because it’s very easy for that path to get pretty dark.
If you want to find a partner, though, you don’t just want to be attractive to “women,” you want to find the subset of women who will be a good match for you, and around whom you can be yourself. See https://putanumonit.com/2016/02/03/015-dating_1/ for a much better discussion than I could ever manage.