For the God part, I just wish I was more tactful just because I know some people find it highly offensive. So at the least I could have been empathic to it by saying “I know this feels terrible to hear”.
Mmm. I don’t think that would have made much of a difference, and the generalization I make of ‘avoid highly offensive examples’ is “make one point at a time.” If you want to teach people about original sight, you probably want to just teach them about original sight, and not original sight and atheism together. This comes up in lots of places, like trying to simultaneously explain causality and human weight. Is it possible to just teach them about original sight without meaty examples? Maybe not, because of the specific topic, but it seems worth trying.
But of the meaty examples, it does seem like the best one (and I suspect that’s why you put it first). Part of the Less Wrong project as I see it is the idea that you too can make terrible mistakes. Probably my favorite short concept from LW to push is the “listen to the quiet voice that whispers when you’re confused or making a mistake. No, really, you only have a few seconds: take it seriously.” that you brought up briefly, because it turns out it’s way better to not make mistakes than make mistakes.
So I wouldn’t have prefaced it with a “this feels terrible to hear” but more along the lines of “with your original sight, you can see through the Emperor’s New Clothes, but you should also expect that there are some parts of your life where you are the ones wearing the clothes, and a huge part of growing is figuring that out.” The point isn’t that “atheism might suck for you now, and I’m sorry about that” but “models being wrong, instead of just incomplete, is a thing that can happen to you too.”
Mmm. I don’t think that would have made much of a difference, and the generalization I make of ‘avoid highly offensive examples’ is “make one point at a time.” If you want to teach people about original sight, you probably want to just teach them about original sight, and not original sight and atheism together. This comes up in lots of places, like trying to simultaneously explain causality and human weight. Is it possible to just teach them about original sight without meaty examples? Maybe not, because of the specific topic, but it seems worth trying.
But of the meaty examples, it does seem like the best one (and I suspect that’s why you put it first). Part of the Less Wrong project as I see it is the idea that you too can make terrible mistakes. Probably my favorite short concept from LW to push is the “listen to the quiet voice that whispers when you’re confused or making a mistake. No, really, you only have a few seconds: take it seriously.” that you brought up briefly, because it turns out it’s way better to not make mistakes than make mistakes.
So I wouldn’t have prefaced it with a “this feels terrible to hear” but more along the lines of “with your original sight, you can see through the Emperor’s New Clothes, but you should also expect that there are some parts of your life where you are the ones wearing the clothes, and a huge part of growing is figuring that out.” The point isn’t that “atheism might suck for you now, and I’m sorry about that” but “models being wrong, instead of just incomplete, is a thing that can happen to you too.”