It seems to me that the key difference between Said and Aella is that Aella basically says: “If you go into a group and interact in an emotional vulnerable way, you should expect receprocity in emotional vulnerability.” On the other hand Said says “Don’t go into groups and be emotionally vulnerable”.
It seems to me that the key difference between Said and Aella is that Aella basically says: “If you go into a group and interact in an emotional vulnerable way, you should expect receprocity in emotional vulnerability.” On the other hand Said says “Don’t go into groups and be emotionally vulnerable”.
Aella is pro-Circling, Said is anti-Circling.