I’d edit “victims” to “weak” in the second header, since I think that expresses your point way clearer. You’re not just pointing at the common-ish (& true!) refrains of “abusers are traumatized” or “abusers were once victims” but more specifically “abusers may be doing a bunch of frame control from the role of weak & vulnerable person”.
I’d edit “victims” to “weak” in the second header, since I think that expresses your point way clearer. You’re not just pointing at the common-ish (& true!) refrains of “abusers are traumatized” or “abusers were once victims” but more specifically “abusers may be doing a bunch of frame control from the role of weak & vulnerable person”.
I actually originally wrote “Manipulators can be weak”, and changed it at the last minute (not sure why)